Although sex education has done enough to rid people of prejudices related to intimate life, some myths continue to exist. These include the fascination with big penises. And only the owners of such “dignity” believe that they are unlucky. But the truth is that all is not so sad.
Most men have a penis that is about 13 cm long. This is quite enough, because it doesn’t have to reach the cervix, as it is about 15 cm from the vagina’s entrance. So as a rule you don’t feel any pain when a man goes all the way in. However, things can be much worse if the length of the penis is much longer than the average norm.
More is not better
- Penises that are larger than average are associated with a higher risk of injury and infection.
- Too large a girth can cause tears in the partner if the man does not take precautions.
- High risk of choking and gag reflex, which must be countered during oral sex.
- Extra length can also make some positions particularly painful. Although the vagina lengthens slightly during arousal, it is unable to accommodate even a partner’s 17cm penis. Instead of pleasure, sex turns into torture for women if you don’t know some tricks.
We tell you how to make the process easier so that everyone involved is happy and no one gets hurt.
1) Preliminary caressing
It is the man’s job to relax his partner as much as possible, because then she can give him more pleasure. Kiss her, give her cunnilingus, use sex toys to make her as aroused as possible and, even better, to give her an orgasm. This way a long penis can penetrate quite deeply. Most women need 10 to 40 minutes to become fully aroused.
2) Find the right position
If you have a large penis and have never tried spoon sex before, you should probably do it. A long penis can hit your cervix, which is unpleasant for many women.
- In the “spooning” position, both partners lie on their sides, with the partner’s back to her partner. If she bends her legs, it increases the distance a little more.
- Another option is lying on the side, but facing each other. The natural curve of the spine in the pelvic area will not allow penetrating too deeply. Also, in this position you will find it easier to control her emotions, which is not unimportant, because some women are shy to say that they feel uncomfortable or even hurt.
- Experts also recommend the “she on top” or “mounted” position. The woman who penetrates the penis not only controls the depth, but also pulls the man’s pelvis back and down slightly, creating a feeling of shorter length.
- One way to make the process more enjoyable is to lay your partner on her back, pressing her buttocks against the edge of the bed. The mattress can create a sort of bumper, that is, an artificial obstacle. This reduces the depth of penetration.
- In the missionary position, the man can invite the woman to press her knees against his chest. This way, her legs will prevent him from going the full length of the penis.
3) Use more lubricant
The natural lubricant secreted by the vagina may not be enough to have sex. Therefore, you should not spare any lubricant. A water-based lubricant is preferable. If the penis is not only long, but also wide, the comfort of penetration will be better. You can not fear that you will have to use artificial lubricants on a permanent basis – the vagina will adapt over time, it has great potential. After all, the vagina is capable of adjusting even to a newborn baby.
4) No need to rush
It is not just the beginning of intercourse that should be rushed, but also the process. You may even want to self-satisfy yourself before starting the second act. The fact is that the second erection will not be as powerful, which will give more pleasure to your partner.
5) Use nozzles
The modern sex industry has created quite a few tools for any man to enjoy himself. For men with a small penis, there are extensions that enlarge it, and for those whose penis is too long, different versions of stoppers have been developed. The latter are available in three different versions:
- Regular rings, known as ‘doughnuts’, which can be put on one at a time,
- Long silicone rings – you can twist them in a figure-of-eight fashion similar to a rubber band,
- Sleeves that can be shortened to fit your size.
6) Agree on a stop word
Anything that pleases both partners is allowed in intimacy, but it’s not always possible to tell from non-verbal signals how far you’ve gone. Therefore, agree in advance on a conventional sign after which you immediately stop your actions. Usually a pre-spoken word is used as such a signal.
